Program your mind
Program your mind, or someone else will do it for you.
Some say we construct the whole of reality non-stop through our thoughts. Some scriptures say the whole of the universe is a mental construct.
Many people might completely disagree. Let’s check it out together. What seems safe to say that our mind does create our reaction to the outside world and thus influences our perceived reality vastly.
Quantum physics also confirms the importance of the observer and the way we perceive ourselves.
Maybe we should look at techniques like NLP and self-hypnosis, etc..